ollamarunner: Preallocate worst case graph at startup

Currently, the KV cache and graph are lazily allocated as needed.
The cache is fully allocated on first use of the corresponding
layer whereas the graph grows with the size of the context.

This can be an issue if another application allocates more VRAM
after we do our calculations - Ollama will crash in the middle of
inference. If we instead allocate the maximum needed memory at
startup of the runner, we will either succeed or fail at that point
rather than at some surprising time in the future.

Currently, this only generates a worst case batch for text, which
means that vision models may get a partial allocation and continue
to lazily allocate the rest.

model/model.go

@@ -299,7 +299,7 @@ func Forward(ctx ml.Context, m Model, inputs []int32, batch input.Batch) (ml.Ten
 
 	cache := m.Config().Cache
 	if cache != nil {
-		err := cache.StartForward(ctx, batch)
+		err := cache.StartForward(ctx, batch, false)
 		if err != nil {
 			return nil, err
 		}